Sunday, November 22, 2009

I understood something today

WELL....lets just say...I understand myself a little better....why all the frustration, hurt, and anger???  A great friend of mine,,,I refer to her as my councelor.  Her councelor told her that when life throws you into this kind of trauma...a trauma of the heart and mind....all sorts of things happen.  A failed marriage is VERY TRAUMATIC.  It leaves one wounded, a bleeding heart, among other wounds.

Just imagine....failed marriage, hurts beyond imagination.  A new set of problems, worries, and fears....essentially this person is laying on a guerney bleeding, however only time heals these wounds.  Someone comes along with judgemental words, an opinion, or a good intention....anyways the words are very discouraging to this very injured person....that discouragment is like putting salt on the wounds....it prolongs healing.  Then some other person comes along adds more salt with

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